The Last Test

Here’s the last test. Take it and find out about you!

Do I . . .

Determine that I am always going to be the center of attention?

Wear the most revealing clothing possible?

Whenever another woman comes up in conversation, I try to receive more attention than her?

Do anything to shock others?

Let everyone know what turns me on?

Have a reputation for saying yes to sex?

Worry about what people say behind my back and hate them for it?

Laugh a lot and always look like I am having fun?

Feel miserable when I am alone; I’m not interesting enough to entertain myself?

Wonder who I am, and why I am never treated special and loved?

Wonder if people like me for who I am or just what I give them?

How did you do? Did you check two or more? Possibly you are feeling low on self-esteem? Maybe you want a relationship to the point of neglecting your values or respect for yourself. Be yourself and take time to build a friendship first.

Consider the Freedoms of Saving Sex until Marriage.
	Freedom from worry about getting pregnant or having to tell anyone that you are pregnant. Pregnancy should be a welcome announcement after marriage.
	Freedom from worry about getting an STD that you may never get rid of or having to go through painful surgery to remove.
	Freedom to grow emotionally, physically, intellectually, spiritually, without all of the excess baggage that sex brings.
	Freedom to respect yourself, knowing that you have the willpower to resist.
	Freedom to be in control of your body and build your psychological strength and self-esteem.
	Freedom to get to know your dating partner as a person and later remember your dating experiences with pleasure, happy memories and no shame.
	Freedom from a bad reputation. No one can call you “loose” or “easy.”
	Freedom to know for sure that someone likes you for yourself, not for your willingness to have sex.
	Freedom to enjoy a social life of many friends and to plan for the future without the pressure to marry too soon.
	Freedom to enjoy the benefits of true love. True love can sometimes be confused with sex. Sex can be brief, but true love is a commitment.